Do you feel cheesed off or apoplectic with the constant efforts of revamping life? If yes, then you are not optimistic enough to deal with the variations of life. You have perhaps not equipped your mind with the capriciousness and impulsiveness of the ways of dwelling in this world.
Most of the times, you are taken aback by the failure and disasters that intrude your life. You totter in a way to combat the debacle that befalls you. You tend to forget the agreeable and copacetic occasions and times that brought you warm fuzzies. Failure is not the shut off of life. It does not imply to the closure or cessation of opportunities. It is rightly said: “failures are the pillars of success.” It is not only an old adage but also applicative. Nonfeasance should not be seen only with the vision of dereliction, but also from a perspective of further refinement and apprehension. You just need to keep your head held high to deal with the cataclysm because the sole fault cannot determine the future as unsuccessful.
It is the natural proneness of human beings to get carried away by the feat and achievements. Once they turn out to be victorious, they swoon and exhilarate their accomplishments, not reminiscing about the fact that there is much more to be achieved than this and that this is not the point of termination in any case.
Here are 9 reasons why a positive attitude is important in life:
9. Undisputable present:
Living your life in the moment proves to be the best possible way of staying optimistic. It is advisable not to brood and ponder over the failures of the past and not to boast about the bygone success. Thinking about the past does not let you live a placid and calm life. You are either too assuaged with your accomplishments or you are too disrupted and freaked out of the erstwhile delinquency. It is a proven fact that people stay happy and pleased as long as they live and think about the present. This is also because of the fact that while they are in their present they fleet time sans the recollection of the past and sans anxiety of the future, which as an inference gives them a bullish time.
8. Higher aims:
Success can be achieved only with a higher aim and an urge to secure proficient and veteran heights, augment and expand the frontiers of knowledge. When we face success we should move on with the motive of higher ambition and aspiration. Sky should be the limit. Failure, as we know is not the end. There is always ample scope for improvement and breakthrough. Higher aims pave way for success which ultimately provides satisfaction to the individual. The individual does not confine himself/herself to whatever is secured. He/she affirms and asserts triumph and coup. Therefore, higher aspiration validates life of an optimist.
7. Never relinquish:
Giving up proves to be the ultimate failure which cannot be transformed into a supernova. Once you give up, you quit all opportunities and shut the doors for success. You kneel before failure and dereliction, taking leave from all spheres of cognizance, all accomplishments and versatility. Possession of a positive attitude and a ‘never give up’ poise leads you to a triumphant life. If you slack yourself and relinquish, you end up regretting. Contrition is the result of surrendering and not trying. Positive attitude has a great importance in life, better keep bracing than just lament for not even trying.
6. Your vision, your attitude:
Rudyard Kipling in his beautifully composed poem “if” wrote:
“If you can dream and not make dreams your master;
If you can think and not make thoughts your aim.”
You should try to fulfill and live your dream, but not let dream overpower the practicality of life. Dreams may be like chimera, may be they are hallucinations and not real. So, they should not be predominant and overriding the practical life.
The ability to think should not take over the aims of your life. Thoughts may be good as well as evil. Segregating them in good and bad is a practical work to be performed by every individual. Your thoughts should not be the reworker for your aims. They should not alter what you aim for.
5. Non-corollary poise:
The adage: “failures are the pillars of success” is rightly stated. People, who fail once, gradually become the stepping stones of success. Learning from your failure is a big thing to do. Not all people have the courage to deal with dereliction. So, you should be happy if you are one of a kind.
Success and failure are a part of life. If success comes first, boasting over it is not a good option. Rather, keep that success as an accelerator for the good work to achieve further accomplished goals in life. Pride for success will not be helpful and will act as an antipodal. Success is not the point of termination. It is the point where you get a chance to move from excellence to perfection. All you need to have is the hanker to rip off this opportunity.
Failure should not be shattering. It implies to the connotation of further improvement, showing that there is room for refinement. It should not disintegrate the built in confidence but brings about headstrong pining for further knowledge and enhancement. Learning from your failure and your weakness is the biggest achievement you can chalk up in a life time. Failure should not be seen as culpable as it is the utmost and the paramount of a smash as there is no success without failure. This is what a positive attitude is and it’s importance for an individual.
4. Enhances your personality:
Planning is the most imperative issue for an organized life. Rigorous planning turns to bring out the disciplined life for an individual. The strategy that you make is the core reason for your positive attitude. You succeed, you urge for more and start living a life of contentment and that is what makes you a better and a sanguine personality.
3. Decision making:
You can trod over the road less traveled by but never trod over the road which is just appealing but not right. You may get carried away by something that is absolutely alluring but may be it is absolutely inaccurate to choose it. You need to be perfectly delineated about choosing the right path to success. You feel good about your right decision which becomes a core reason for a positive attitude.
2. Discipline emboldens an appreciative attitude:
It is necessary to lead a disciplined life. You then have your own plans which have been carefully thought over and satiates you . It is the positive attitude of the individual which brings about discipline in life.
1. Keep calm and be positive:
If you believe in possessing a positive attitude only then will you be able to stay calm. Calmness being a necessary element in life there by adds enough happiness to life. So, keep calm and be positive!!
How one leads his/her life is entirely a dependent factor on the individual itself. You can choose to live a life of commendation or a life of a pessimist. Whether you choose to gather the heap of your winnings and keep it aside, deliberating it as a point of termination or you choose to move on further with you success is the dainty of the individual. Live a life where you possess positiveness, only then can you move on in life.